Setting Intentions: The Gentle Shift That Changes Everything
“When you realize where you are going, the path becomes easy.” — Lao Tzu
There is a quiet power in deciding what you want your life to feel like.
Not in the sense of setting rigid goals or chasing perfection — but in choosing the energy you want to hold as you move through the world. That is the heart of intention-setting. It’s soft, steady, human. And it’s one of the most transformational practices we have as mothers, creatives, and women building lives we want to wake up to.
Why Intention Matters More Than Goals
Goals can be overwhelming. They’re big, distant, and often tied to outcomes we can’t always control.
But intention is different. Intention is inward-facing. It’s about alignment.
Living with intention means deciding who you want to be, how you want to move through the world, and what energy you want to carry with you each day.
Your intention becomes the compass.
Your actions become the steps.
Your reflection becomes the anchor.
And when your daily decisions come from a place of intention rather than pressure, something shifts — gently at first, then steadily, like a boulder gathering momentum as it rolls down a hill.
From Big Picture to Daily Life
One of the biggest obstacles to any creative venture — or even just getting through tough seasons of motherhood — is feeling like the vision is too big or too far away.
That’s why intention-setting works best when it moves from wide to narrow:
Yearly Intentions — The Big Picture
Start with who you want to become.
Write your yearly intentions as if they are already true:
“I live with presence.”
“I nurture my health with joy, not pressure.”
“I create from a grounded place.”
This anchors your direction, like planting a flag on the mountaintop before you begin the climb.
Monthly Intentions — The Gentle Course Correction
Each month, reconnect with your core values.
What needs attention? Where do you feel pulled? What do you want more of?
Monthly intentions help you remember what matters when life moves fast.
Weekly Intentions — Small, Sustainable Focus
Weekly intentions are where your values start becoming habits.
They shape the rhythm of your everyday life:
More presence.
More connection.
More creative energy.
More grounding.
Just enough structure to guide you — never enough to overwhelm you.
Daily Intentions — The Micro-Moments of Change
This is where the real magic happens.
When you start each morning with one clear intention — one sentence that captures the kind of day you want to grow into — your actions naturally shift.
The intention sets the direction.
The action creates the progress.
The progress fuels the motivation.
And from there, momentum builds.
A Practice That Brings You Back to Yourself
“Clarity is kindness.” — Brené Brown
Intention-setting isn’t about controlling your life — it’s about showing up for it with clarity and an open heart.
Let this be your space to return to yourself — slowly, intentionally, and with trust in your own becoming.
Intentions don’t make life perfect.
They make life aligned.
They make life yours.